Our primary approach is rooted in the lived and living experience peer work model - because all of our practitioners have walked through mental health challenges themselves. This means we’re not focused on specific therapeutic techniques; we’re focused on truly listening to you and responding with empathy and understanding, just as fellow humans.

That said, there are certain models we’ve learned about and sometimes draw from for strategies or resources. If there’s an approach you’d prefer to avoid, just let us know. We’re all about adapting to your needs, no questions asked.

We do not use Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT).

Our Approach

Here we are more than just “therapist”. We are people who have lived through the same struggles you’re facing. Therapy Shmerapy was born from lived and living experience, and we recognise the power in being able to share experiences with each other. We’ve faced the systems, the labels, the doubts. We have come from experiences that have left us feeling invalidated, disappointed, and scared of seeking mental health support - and we’re here now to show up for you.

We are not here to diagnose or pathologise. Therapy Shmerapy originates from an understanding that traditional or stereotypical therapy is not always what will help us. We take a depathologising approach, meaning we do not medicalise natural, human reactions to life’s difficulties, injustice, and trauma. We know that mental health is often a response to a world that doesn’t make space for us.

Research has shown repeatedly that the strongest predicator of positive outcomes in mental health is the genuine connection between you and the person supporting you. At Therapy Shmerapy that connection comes from shared experience. Sure, no two experiences are exactly the same, but at least we can guarantee that we have some sort of experience.

The name Therapy Shmerapy is our way of pushing back against stigma. Mental health support shouldn’t be a big, scary thing. It should be humans talking honestly about the complexities of life - and that conversation is long overdue.

About Us

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